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Gerakan wanita ketika berjalan bisa melambangkan kepribadiannya lho.

1. Bila berjalan, dari belakang kelihatan seperti tidak memijak tanah

Golongan wanita yang jalannya berginjat, konon wanita ini adalah wanita yang tidak jujur, bila berbohong, mulutnya laser dan menyinggung perasaan orang lain. Wanita yang berjalan seperti ini juga terkenal dengan sikap egonya. Lebih parah, wanita ini biasanya pemboros atau suka membuang uang tanpa berpikir sebelum berbelanja. Padahal, uangnya itu masih banyak kegunaannya.Tapi jangan berkecil hati, karena wanita seperti ini biasanya menjadi pujaan lelaki.

2. Bila berjalan, sering menoleh ke kanan and kiri

Wanita seperti ini biasanya pandai menyimpan rahasia. Walaupun ramai yang menganggap wanita seperti ini tidak jujur, suka menipu teman sendiri, dan merugikan temannya, namun, byk lelaki yang berusaha untuk menaklukan hatinya. Konon wanita seperti ini senang diatur.

3. Bila berjalan suka menunduk

Cara berjalan melambangkan wanita seperti ini memiliki sifat yang

tertutup. Ia hanya akan berbicara dengan orang-orang yang dekat dengannya dan dpt dipercaya untuk menyimpan rahasianya. Wanita seperti ini biasanya sukar untuk ditakluk hatinya.

Di samping sikapnya yang dingin, wanita seperti ini tidak peduli dengan kehidupan cinta. Namun, jika ada lelaki yang berhasil menawan hatinya, dijamin akan mendapat kebahagiaan. Sebab, wanita jenis ini sangat setia, dan dia tidak akan mengkhianati lelaki yang dicintainya.

4. Bila berjalan menatap lurus ke depan

Wanita seperti ini biasanya memiliki pendirian yang teguh. Jangan sekali-sekali menentang apa yang pernah dikatakannya, jika anda tidak mau mendengar dia bicara panjang lebar. Meski pendiriannya teguh, tapi selalu berselisih pendapat. Jangan heran jika wanita seperti ini hanya mau bicara dengan orang yang berpengetahuan luas.

5. Bila berjalan badan tampak tegak

Wanita ini tegas menentukan sikapnya sendiri. Dia tidak mau urusan pribadinya dicampuri orang lain. Gaya bicaranya serius, menunjukkan dia memiliki pendirian teguh. Yang menarik dari wanita ini, ia bertanggungjawab terhadap apa yang pernah dilakukannya. Dia menyenangi lelaki yang mandiri tanpa meninggalkan sifat-sifat romantisnya.

6. Bila berjalan sambil cengar-cengir, senyam-senyum tanpa alasan jelas

Ini wanita gila, agak kurang waras jgn didekati.

7. Bila berjalan sambil nyanyi trus bawa kecrekan

Berarti dia WARIA, bukan wanita asli..banyak pria yang takut padanya

8. Bila berjalan sambil sesekali memamerkan barisan gigi2nya yang putih

HATI-HATI dia belom di suntik rabies!

9. Bila berjalan, dari belakang kelihatan seperti tidak memijak tanah

Mungkin dia syetan….lariiiiii……hahahhaha……

10. Kalo ada wanita bisa jalan di air

wuah… itu pasti zhang zi yi!

11. Kalo ada wanita berambut panjang menutup muka dan keluar merangkak

dari TV anda, maka itu Sadako.

12. Bila jalannya maju mundur

itu artinya wanita plin-plan, so kalo mau berhubungan dengan wanita jenis ini berhati2 lah , ini hari dia bilang yah besok dia bilang NO NO NO NO NO

13. Kalo ada wanita yg berjalan melompat-lompat

nah lho, seraaaammmmm pocong mamiiiiiii..

14. Kalo ada wanita yg habis baca email ini senyam-senyum sendirian apalagi sampe tertawa cekikikan, nah lho gue kagak tahu jenis yg mana ini

(from Jesse to me via FS)

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You are a think first, think later type. You look for the beautiful mind in everyone and prize ideas over results. Seeking to surround your self by people who inspire creativity, you often wind up alone in an introspective reverie. A dreamer and a fantasist, you may find that the most interesting territory to explore is in your own mind. What makes it the most fun, however, is when you are able to bring other people along for the ride.

selain film2nya Johnny Depp dan film2 animasi juga yg lucu2, aku selalu suka film2 tentang perempuan. Yg banyak pemeran cewenya dan cerita sekitar kehidupan mereka. Salah satunya MONA LISA SMILE.

tadi aku mampir ke official websitenya dan nemu yg namanya ART CHALLENGE, dengan memilih gambar2 kamu bisa tau kepribadian kamu, krn gambar atau di sini maksudnya adalah “seni” yg kamu suka bisa menunjukkan kepribadian kamu..penasaran jadi aku klik aja dan ikutin petunjuknya.

Ternyata setelah milih2 gambar dengan petunjuk2 yg ada, hasilnya aku ABSTRACT INTELLECTUAL dan setelah aku baca pelan2 deskripsinya, bener juga..

kalo mo ikut coba, bisa klik link di bawah:

Mona Lisa Smile Official Website

trus klik ENTER THE SITE, nanti akan muncul window baru, pilih challenge yg ada di sebelah music, pilih continue..then u’ll have to pick one of those pics..and see the results..

it suits me. hope you do too..   🙂

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i love this article so much, but i just want to say that this ain’t my own article. Someone made it, sent it to his/her friends’ via email, i got it, intend to share it, and finally post it here, i believe it would be great if many people read it..Maaf ya gak ada nama penulis aslinya siapa di email yg aku terima..

1. MENYALAHKAN ORANG LAIN
Itu penyakit P dan K, yaitu Primitif dan Kekanak-kanakan. Menyalahkan orang lain adalah pola pikir orang primitif. Di pedalaman Afrika, kalau ada orang yang sakit, yang Dipikirkan adalah: Siapa nih yang nyantet? Selalu “siapa” Bukan “apa” penyebabnya. Bidang kedokteran modern selalu mencari tahu “apa” sebabnya, bukan “siapa”. Jadi kalau kita berpikir menyalahkan orang lain, itu sama dengan sikap primitif. Pakai koteka aja deh, nggak usah pakai dasi dan jas.

Kekanak-kanakan. Kenapa ? Anak-anak selalu nggak pernah mau disalahkan. Kalau ada piring yang jatuh, “Adik tuh yang salah”, atau ” mbak tuh yang salah”. Anda pakai celana monyet aja kalau bersikap begitu. Kalau kita manusia yang berakal dan dewasa selalu akan mencari sebab terjadinya sesuatu.

2. MENYALAHKAN DIRI SENDIRI
Menyalahkan diri sendiri bahwa dirinya merasa tidak mampu. Ini berbeda dengan MENGAKUI KESALAHAN. Anda pernah mengalaminya ? Kalau anda bilang tidak pernah, berarti anda bohong. “Ah, dia sih bisa, dia ahli, dia punya jabatan, dia berbakat dsb, Lha saya ini apa ?, wah saya nggak bisa deh. Dia S3, lha saya SMP, wah nggak bisa deh. Dia punya waktu banyak, saya sibuk, pasti nggak bisa deh”. Penyakit ini seperti kanker, tambah besar, besar di dalam mental diri sehingga bisa mencapai “improper guilty feeling”.
Jadi walau yang salah partner, anak buah, atau bahkan atasan, berani bilang “Saya kok yang memang salah, tidak mampu dsb”. Penyakit ini pelan-pelan bisa membunuh kita. Merasa inferior, kita tidak punya kemampuan. Kita sering membandingkan keberhasilan orang lain dengan kekurangan kita, sehingga keberhasilan orang lain dianggap wajar karena mereka punya sesuatu lebih yang kita tidak punya.

3. TIDAK PUNYA GOAL / CITA-CITA
Kita sering terpaku dengan kesibukan kerja, tetapi arahnya tidak jelas. Sebaiknya kita selalu mempunyai target kerja dengan milestone. Buat target jangka panjang dan jangka pendek secara tertulis. Ilustrasinya kayak gini : Ada anjing jago lari yang sombong. Apa sih
yang nggak bisa saya kejar, kuda aja kalah sama saya. Kemudian ada kelinci lompat-lompat, kiclik, kiclik, kiclik. Temannya bilang: “Nah tuh ada kelinci, kejar aja”. Dia kejar itu kelinci, wesss…., kelinci lari lebih kencang, anjingnya ngotot ngejar dan kelinci lari sipat-kuping
(sampai nggak dengar / peduli apa-apa), dan akhirnya nggak terkejar, kelinci masuk pagar.
Anjing kembali lagi ke temannya dan diketawain.

“Ah lu, katanya jago lari, sama kelinci aja nggak bisa kejar. Katanya lu paling kencang”.

“Lha dia goalnya untuk tetap hidup sih, survive, lha gua goalnya untuk
fun aja sih”. Kalau “GOAL” kita hanya untuk “FUN”, isi waktu aja, ya hasilnya cuma terengah-engah saja.

4. MEMPUNYAI “GOAL”, TAPI NGAWUR MENCAPAINYA
Biasanya dialami oleh orang yang tidak “teachable”. Goalnya salah, fokus kita juga salah, jalannya juga salah, arahnya juga salah.

Ilustrasinya kayak gini : ada pemuda yang terobsesi dengan emas, karena pengaruh tradisi yang mendewakan emas. Pemuda ini pergi ke pertokoan dan mengisi karungnya dengan emas dan seenaknya ngeloyor pergi. Tentu saja ditangkap polisi dan ditanya. Jawabnya :
Pokoknya saya mau emas, saya nggak mau lihat kiri-kanan.

5. MENGAMBIL JALAN PINTAS, SHORT CUT
Keberhasilan tidak pernah dilalui dengan jalan pintas. Jalan pintas tidak membawa orang ke kesuksesan yang sebenarnya, real success, karena tidak mengikuti proses. Kalau kita menghindari proses, ya nggak matang, kalaupun matang ya dikarbit. Jadi, tidak ada tuh jalan pintas. Pemain bulutangkis Indonesia bangun jam 5 pagi, lari keliling Senayan,
melakukan smesh 1000 kali. Itu bukan jalan pintas. Nggak ada orang yang leha-leha tiap hari pakai sarung, terus tiba- tiba jadi juara bulu tangkis. Nggak ada ! Kalau anda disuruh taruh uang 1 juta, dalam 3 minggu jadi 3 juta, masuk akal nggak tuh?
Nggak mungkin !. Karena hal itu melawan kodrat.

6. MENGAMBIL JALAN TERLALU PANJANG, TERLALU SANTAI
Analoginya begini : Pesawat terbang untuk bisa take-off, harus mempunyai kecepatan minimum. Pesawat Boeing 737, untuk dapat take- off, memerlukan kecepatan minimum 300 km/jam. Kalau kecepatan dia cuma 50 km/jam, ya cuma ngabis-ngabisin avtur aja, muter-muter aja. Lha kalau jalannya, runwaynya lurus anda cuma pakai kecepatan 50 km/jam, ya nggak bisa take-off, malah nyungsep iya. Iya kan ?
7. MENGABAIKAN HAL-HAL YANG KECIL
Dia maunya yang besar-besar, yang heboh, tapi yang kecil-kecil nggak dikerjain. Dia lupa bahwa struktur bangunan yang besar, pasti ada komponen yang kecilnya. Maunya yang hebat aja. Mengabaikan hal kecil aja nggak boleh, apalagi mengabaikan orang kecil.

8. TERLALU CEPAT MENYERAH
Jangan berhenti kerja pada masa percobaan 3 bulan. Bukan mengawali dengan yang salah yang bikin orang gagal, tetapi berhenti pada tempat yang salah. Mengawali dengan salah bisa diperbaiki, tetapi berhenti di tempat yang salah repot sekali.

9. BAYANG BAYANG MASA LALU
Wah puitis sekali, saya suka sekali dengan yang ini. Karena apa? Kita selalu penuh memori kan ? Apa yang kita lakukan, masuk memori kita, minimal sebagai pertimbangan kita untuk langkah kita berikutnya. Apalagi kalau kita pernah gagal, nggak berani untuk mencoba lagi. Ini bisa balik lagi ke penyakit nomer-3.
Kegagalan sebagai akibat bayang-bayang masa lalu yang tidak terselesaikan dengan semestinya. Itu bayang-bayang negatif. Memori kita kadang- kadang sangat membatasi kita untuk maju ke depan. Kita kadang-kadang lupa bahwa hidup itu maju terus. “Waktu” itu maju kan ?
Ada nggak yang punya jam yang jalannya terbalik? Nggak ada kan ?
Semuanya maju, hidup itu maju. Lari aja ke depan, kalaupun harus jatuh,
pasti ke depan kok. Orang yang berhasil, pasti pernah gagal. Itu memori negatif yang menghalangi kesuksesan.


10. MENGHIPNOTIS DIRI DENGAN KESUKSESAN SEMU

Biasa disebut Pseudo Success Syndrome. Kita dihipnotis dengan itu. Kita kalau pernah berhasil dengan sukses kecil, terus berhenti, nggak kemana-mana lagi.Sudah puas dengan sukses kecil tersebut.
Napoleon pernah menyatakan: “Saat yang paling berbahaya datang bersama dengan kemenangan yang besar”.

Itu saat yang paling berbahaya, karena orang lengah, mabuk kemenangan. Jangan terjebak dengan goal-goal hasil yang kecil, karena kita akan menembak sasaran yang besar, goal yang jauh. Jangan berpuas diri, ntar jadi sombong, terus takabur.
Motivation of the day:
Action may not always bring success, but there is no success without action.

“Usaha dan tindakan tidak selalu menghasilkan keberhasilan/sukses, tetapi… Tidak ada keberhasilan dan sukses TANPA usaha dan tindakan.” (Greg Phillips – Benjamin Disraeli)

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—————JANUARY BABY——————–

Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth. Stubborn.

———-FEBRUARY BABY ——————–

Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. S #*iest out of everyone. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest and loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.

—————–MARCH BABY ——————–

Attractive personality. S#xy. Affectionate Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic.. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered.. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses others.

——————APRIL BABY ——————-

Suave and compromising. Funny and humorous. Stubborn. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Does work well with others. Very confident. Sensitive. Positive Attitude. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Able to cheer everyone up and/or make them laugh. Able to motivate oneself and others. Understanding. Fun to be around. Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and traveling. Systematic. Hot but has brains.

—————–MAY BABY —————–

Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High spirited.

————JUNE BABY ————-

You’ve got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make new friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt and more than likely have a very attractive partner. A wicked hottie. It is also more than likely that you have a massive record collection. You have a great choice in films, and may one day become a famous actor/actress yourself – heck, you’ve got the looks for it!!!

—————-JULY BABY ————–

Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled.. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets.dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be with friends … Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.

————AUGUST BABY —————

outgoing personality. takes risks. feeds on attention. no self control. kind hearted. self
confident. loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful. easy to get along with and talk to. has an “every thing’s peachy” attitude. likes talking and singing. loves music. daydreamer. easily distracted. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. loves to be loved. hates studying. in need of “that someone”. longs for freedom. rebellious when withheld or restricted. lives by “no pain no gain” caring. always a suspect. playful. mysterious. “charming” or “beautiful” to everyone. stubborn. curious. independent. strong willed. a fighter.

————SEPTEMBER BABY —————

Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people’s problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys to make love. Emotional. Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates oneself and others. Loves to travel and explore. Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand.

—————OCTOBER BABY ——————-

Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the centre. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn’t pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all.

—————NOVEMBER BABY ——————–

Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun. Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group.

Fearless and independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, the greatest men are born in this month. If you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind.

—————DECEMBER BABY —————

This straight-up means your the most good-looking person possible… better than all of these other months! Loyal and generous. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Has that someone always on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer. Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show character. One guy/girl kind of person. Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves music.

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Similar to other eldest children, you are probably more successful than your peers. You likely have a good education and have achieved a great deal professionally. Being the eldest child in your family made it natural for you to go for what you wanted, often with a competitive edge. You tend to be a practical person who is fairly open to constructive feedback. You continually seek ways to accomplish your goals more efficiently.

The Impact of Birth Order

Because individuals can only occupy one birth position, birth order represents a valuable way of categorizing people to ascertain how and to what extent birth order influenced their personality. Below you will be provided with a detailed assessment of how and to what extent your birth order has impacted your development, behavior and interactions as well.

Eldest children are generally the focus of their parents’ attention until younger siblings are introduced into the family. While this early attachment with adults fosters a positive self-image, eldest children tend to be concerned that they will lose their caregivers’ love and attention if younger siblings join the family. Thus, eldest children tend to be sensitive about receiving enough attention, and can also be very competitive in a variety of areas. The flip side of this situation is that when younger siblings arrive, eldest children take on a new role that gives them power and respect. They begin to view themselves as leaders in relation to their younger siblings. To establish authority and protect their role as the eldest sibling, they strive to succeed at everything they do and become even more competitive. Frequently, eldest children grow up enjoying being the center of attention, and can, in certain circumstance, take on a sense of exaggerated self-importance.

Occupations that are generally well suited for only children include politicians, astronauts, college professors or members of other learned groups. This is because eldest children are usually attracted to professions that are powerful and prestigious. Eldest children routinely have a strong desire to be successful.

Famous people who are eldest children are:

Brandy

George W. Bush

Hillary Rodham Clinton

Oprah Winfrey

Katherine Hepburn

Generally, eldest children are the sole focus of their parent’s attention. For eldest children who experience this consistent care and concern, they begin to perceive themselves, from a very early age, as worthy of love and attention. This type of nurturing is usually a key factor in the development of high self-esteem.

Compared to other eldest children your self-esteem is somewhat lower. The influence of birth order on personality is not a simple matter. In some cases, the personality traits believed to be characteristic of individuals of your birth order type may not perfectly match your own traits. This happens due to your unique experiences and dynamics within your family. It may be that your family environment didn’t cultivate the development of your self-esteem, or other circumstances interfered with the development of high self-esteem.

Many eldest children are socialized to strive for success from a very early age. As the eldest in their family, they feel that it is expected that they will achieve more than their younger siblings. Usually, eldest children believe that their hard work and persistence is the key to staying on top and surpassing the accomplishments of their younger siblings.

Compared to other eldest children you’re less focused on achievement. The influence of birth order on personality is not a simple matter. In some cases, the personality traits believed to be characteristic of individuals of your birth order type may not perfectly match your own traits. This is because of your unique experiences and dynamics within your family. There are many ways that your family environment might not have fostered an achievement-oriented approach to life.

For example, it is possible that even though you were the eldest child in the family you were not encouraged or pressured to outperform your siblings. It may also be that other values in your family were given a greater emphasis than becoming a high achiever.

Advantages of Being an Eldest Child

High Self-Esteem

Eldest Child Average

You

Generally, eldest children are the sole focus of their parent’s attention. For eldest children who experience this consistent care and concern, they begin to perceive themselves, from a very early age, as worthy of love and attention. This type of nurturing is usually a key factor in the development of high self-esteem.

Compared to other eldest children your self-esteem is somewhat lower. The influence of birth order on personality is not a simple matter. In some cases, the personality traits believed to be characteristic of individuals of your birth order type may not perfectly match your own traits. This happens due to your unique experiences and dynamics within your family. It may be that your family environment didn’t cultivate the development of your self-esteem, or other circumstances interfered with the development of high self-esteem.

Achievement Oriented

Eldest Child Average

You

Many eldest children are socialized to strive for success from a very early age. As the eldest in their family, they feel that it is expected that they will achieve more than their younger siblings. Usually, eldest children believe that their hard work and persistence is the key to staying on top and surpassing the accomplishments of their younger siblings.

Compared to other eldest children you’re less focused on achievement. The influence of birth order on personality is not a simple matter. In some cases, the personality traits believed to be characteristic of individuals of your birth order type may not perfectly match your own traits. This is because of your unique experiences and dynamics within your family. There are many ways that your family environment might not have fostered an achievement-oriented approach to life.

For example, it is possible that even though you were the eldest child in the family you were not encouraged or pressured to outperform your siblings. It may also be that other values in your family were given a greater emphasis than becoming a high achiever.

Liberal Sexual Views

Eldest Child Average

You

Eldest children tend to be natural performers and seek excitement in their interactions with others. For these reasons, they are usually comfortable in sexual situations and most likely crave adventure and creativity when being intimate.

Compared to other eldest children you are less liberal in your sexual views. The influence of birth order on personality is not a simple matter. In some cases, the personality traits believed to be characteristic of individuals of your birth order type may not perfectly match your own traits. This happens due to your unique experiences and dynamics within your family. There are many ways that your family environment could have influenced you to be less sexually liberal.

Your inclination is likely to be towards predictability and comfort. When it comes to sexuality, you tend to maintain a somewhat conventional view and likely feel most satisfied with traditional types of sex. Seeking adventure may not be a top priority in your sex life, as you may place a higher value on the level of intimacy or depth of emotional connection you share with your partner.

Eldest children often think that because they are the eldest, they have to be better than their siblings at most things. As a result, eldest children tend to set very high goals for themselves and become highly competitive.

Compared to other eldest children you are less competitive. The influence of birth order on personality is not a simple matter. In some cases, the personality traits believed to be characteristic of individuals of your birth order type may not perfectly match your own traits. This happens due to your unique experiences and dynamics within your family. There are many ways that your family environment might not have encouraged you to be competitive. For example, extensive interactions with friends or extended family members might have taught you to value competition less in order to preserve relationships. As a result, when it comes to winning, you might have learned to place a higher priority on being considerate of others.

For example, some caregivers raise their children to value the importance of being sensitive to others rather striving to be better. Similarly, extensive interaction with people outside of your immediate family circle, including friends and extended family members, could have taught you to appreciate being an integral part of a group rather than focus on always trying to win.

For many eldest children, being the center of attention can translate to feeling valued and loved. Some eldest children, although not all, are spoiled by being the sole focus of their parent’s attention. As younger siblings come along, eldest children tend to feel threatened that they will lose the close relationship they have with their parents. In the attempt to regain their central position in the family, many eldest children become quite skilled at drawing attention to themselves.

It is likely that when you are left alone, you may engage in performance-oriented activities, such as dancing or playing a musical instrument. Because of your desire to be the center of attention, you probably tend to be outgoing, entertaining and upbeat when you are around others. However, for many first-borns, the desire to be the center of attention can have negative consequences. Eldest children can be quite self-absorbed and selfish. When things do not go as planned, being rude or having temper tantrums is a possible response.

Eldest children tend to develop an excessive respect for authority. They tend to view their family structure in a hierarchical manner. They perceive themselves as subordinate to parents but in charge of younger siblings. When growing up, eldest children are likely to seek approval and support from caregivers. At the same time, they may feel that being the eldest child in the family gives them the power to supervise and direct younger siblings. As youngest children often rebel against the demands of older siblings, eldest children may grow up being sensitive to the issues of power and authority.

While respecting authority to a certain degree is understandable, it can also involve negative consequences if it’s taken too far. You may tend to make superficial judgments because your evaluations are based on people’s external qualities such as rank or influence rather than internal traits such as character or integrity. When you occupy positions of power you may appear as inflexible and condescending if this behavior was presented to you while you were growing up. When you are in a subordinate role, you may be overly compliant. You might allow your self-perception to be at the mercy of what others think about you, especially if they occupy a position of power. When you receive negative feedback, you may unnecessarily undermine yourself and start questioning your own abilities.

Birth order can have a significant impact on our personalities, relationships, choices, and the lives we ultimately lead. This influence is thought to be due to differential treatment a child receives depending on how he or she fits into the family structure (in addition to the nature of the home environment itself). Even when siblings live in the same household, the experiences they have growing up due to birth order can have a huge impact.

Although the influence of birth order on personality is complex, there are exceptions to the amount of influence it can have. Factors such as family size, presence of step-children and half-siblings, adoptions, divorce, remarriages and deaths in the family are only a few of the elements that complicate the influence of birth order on personality. Also, the way that you are raised, including how your parents treat you and the type of environment in which you grow up (harmonious, chaotic, unpredictable, etc.) will all have a dramatic effect on your personality as well.

In addition, the same personality characteristics may play out differently depending on a person’s situation and background. For example, eldest children tend to be high achievers. This personality characteristic may be demonstrated in a variety of ways. In some eldest children, achievement is demonstrated through obtaining advanced degrees, high salaries and entering prestigious professions. Other eldest children may naturally gravitate toward leadership roles in adulthood, as the experience of being in control and calling the shots is something that becomes familiar to them.

Finally, even though there are numerous family types, psychologists typically study nuclear families with one to three biological children. Other family units are usually not considered and the influence of birth order on personality in “non-traditional” families is not so well understood.

Still, birth order, though not perfect, is a way to help you understand yourself better. You can use your birth order to get additional insight into what motivates you and why. Below you will find a bar showing to what extent you match the profile of each birth order type.

MIDDLE CHILDREN

Middle Children

Middle children are usually very social and outgoing. Most get along with people of any age. They are commonly calm and composed. Many middle children retain the ability to think rationally even in stressful situations. They often appreciate other points of view and are considered selfless by many people. Because middle children sometimes feel that they are lagging behind their older siblings, they may suffer from somewhat lower self-esteem. Under certain circumstances, they may feel that they do not receive as much attention from their parents as their siblings.

Advantages of Middle Children

Intergenerational Social Skills

Most middle children get along with people of any age. They are often able to appreciate diverse points of view and are flexible. This is how you compare to middle children.

Many middle children are warm individuals who love to be helpful. They are usually eager to share and help out whenever they can. This is how you compare to middle children.

Even-Tempered

In general, middle children are peaceful by nature. Their ability to remain calm even in taxing situations makes them excellent negotiators. This is how you compare to middle children.

Feeling of Not Belonging in Your Family

Middle children tend to feel that they do not receive as much attention as their younger and older siblings. At times, they may feel that their needs are ignored or they are taken for granted. This is how you compare to middle children.

Middle children often focus on achievements that are not education related. This is how you compare to middle children.

Best Careers for Middle Children

Middle children, because of their exceptional social skills, are usually well suited for positions that require extensive social interactions. Some of the best careers for middle children include sales people, real estate agents, journalists, comedians, and entertainers.

Famous Middle Children

Britney Spears

Jay Leno

David Letterman

Donald Trump

Barbara Walters

Youngest Children

Youngest children often tend to be social, outgoing and fun to be around. They likely feel energized when around people. Many youngest children are affectionate and do not hide their positive emotions. When they see somebody in trouble, they often go out of the way to help out. Because some youngest children are overly pampered, they can become impractical. If they are not taught the benefits of hard work and discipline, some youngest children tend to feel somewhat dissatisfied with their lives and themselves.

Advantages of Youngest Children

Social

Youngest children are usually outgoing and have strong social skills. This is how you compare to youngest children.

Creative

Youngest children often have an extraordinary ability to see things from a unique perspective. They are usually innovative and open to new experiences. This is how you compare to youngest children.

Affectionate

Youngest children are generally warm-hearted. They are good at forming affectionate and caring relationships. This is how you compare to youngest children.

Disadvantages of Youngest Children

Low Self Esteem

Some youngest children are overly pampered as children. As a result they might grow up doubting their ability to do things on their own. This is how you compare to youngest children.

Life Satisfaction

To carve out their own niche, youngest children have to search for areas not already mastered by their older siblings. This can make some youngest children feel like their choices are restricted, and lead them to feel dissatisfied with their lives. This is how you compare to youngest children.

Sometimes youngest children can be impractical. If they are spoiled as children, they can develop into adults who tend to have overly optimistic expectations about situations, and may not be aware of the work required to achieve certain goals. This is how you compare to youngest children.

est Careers for Youngest Children

Youngest children are best suited to careers that require social skills and creativity, such as sales people, artists, entertainers and editors. In addition, youngest children tend to make exceptionally good writers and historians.

Famous Youngest Children

Halle Berry

Cameron Diaz

Rosie O’Donnell

Eddie Murphy

Billy Crystal

History Behind the Test

During 1930-1960, Alfred Adler was the premier psychologist to develop a theory illustrating how birth order influences personality. Adler’s theory is based on the assumption that all children within a family are treated differently. He proposed that these differences in treatment by parents and siblings lead to the development of different adaptation mechanisms, personalities and lifestyles.

In 1996, Frank Sulloway introduced a birth order theory that expanded on the work of preceding psychologists, including Adler. Sulloway’s birth order theory assumes that in order to survive, people have to adapt to their environments. For example, even when living in the same household, the experiences and interactions that eldest, middle, youngest and only children have will differ, sometimes dramatically, from each other. Thus, it is expected that their cognitions, emotions, and behaviors will differ as well as they all adapt individually to the environment they are in.

Tickle did a study of over 3,500 people to test the most current and prominent theories on birth order’s effect on personality. By analyzing this data, our researchers were able to identify those personality traits that are most characteristic of persons born into a particular position in their family structure. Your scores were calculated by comparing your responses to others who both share your birth order and those who hold a different position from you in their own families.

[ I forgot from which website did i take the test on. Sorry, couldn’t give you the website source name. ]

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VIRGO – The Perfectionist
Dominant in relationships. Conservative. Always wants the last word. Argumentative. Worries. Very smart. Dislikes noise and chaos. Eager. Hardworking. Loyal. Beautiful. Easy to talk to. Hard to please. Ha rsh. Practical and very fussy. Often shy. Pessimistic.

SCORPIO – The Intense One
Very energetic. Intelligent. Can be jealous and/or possessive. Hardworking. Great kisser. Can become obsessive or secretive. Holds grudges. Attractive. Determined. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Romantic. Can be self-centered at times. Passionate and Emotional.

LIBRA – The Harmonizer
Nice to everyone they meet. Can’t make up their mind. Have own unique appeal. Creative, energetic, and very social. Hates to be alone. Peaceful, generous. Very loving and beautiful. Flirtatious. Give in too easily. Procrastinators. Very gullible.

ARIES – The Daredevil
Energetic. Adventurous and spontaneous. Confident and enthusiastic. Fun. Loves a challenge. EXTREMELY impatient. Sometimes selfish. Short fuse. (Easily angered.) Lively, passionate, and sharp wit. Outgoing. Lose interest quickly – easily bored. Egotistical. Courageous and assertive. Tends to be physical and athletic.

AQUARIUS – The Sweetheart
Optimistic and honest. Sweet personality. Very independent. Inventive and intelligent. Friendly and loyal. Can seem unemotional. Can be a bit rebellious. Very stubborn, but original and unique Attractive on the inside and out. Eccentric personality.

GEMINI – The Chatterbox
Smart and witty. Outgoing, very chatty. Lively, energetic. Adaptable but needs to express themselves. Argumentative and outspoken. Likes change. Versatile. Busy, sometimes nervous and tense. Gossips. May seem superficial or inconsistent, but is only changeable. Beautiful physically and mentally.

LEO – The Boss
Very organized. Need order in their lives – like being in control. Like boundaries. Tend to take over everything. Bossy. Like to help others. Social and outgoing. Extroverted. Generous, warm-hearted. Sensitive. Creative energy. Full of themselves. Loving. D oing the right thing is important to Leos. Attractive.

CANCER – The Protector
Moody, emotional. May be shy. Very loving and caring. Pretty/handsome. Excellent partners for life. Protective. Inventive and imaginative. Cautious. Touchy-feely kind of person. Needs love from others. Easily hurt, but sympathetic.

PISCES – The Dreamer
Generous, kind, and thoughtful. Very creative and imaginative. May become secretive and vague. Sensitive. Don’t like details Dreamy and unrealistic. Sympathetic and loving.. Kind. Unselfish. Good kisser. Beautiful.

CAPRICORN – The Go-Getter
Patient and wise. Practical and rigid. Ambitious. Tends to be good-looking. Humorous and funny. Can be a bit shy and reserved. Often pessimists. Capricorns tend to act before they think and can be unfriendly y at times. Hold grudges. Like competition. Get what they want.

TAURUS – The Enduring One
Charming but aggressive. Can come off as boring, but they are not. Hard workers. Warm-hearted. Strong, has endurance. Solid beings who are stable and secure in their ways. Not looking for shortcuts. Take pride in their beauty. Patient and reliable. Make great friends and give good advice. Loving and kind. Loves hard – passionate. Express themselves emotionally. Prone to ferocious temper-tantrums. Determined. Indulge themselves often. Very generous.

SAGITTARIUS – The Happy-Go-Lucky One
Good-natured optimist. Doesn’t want to grow up (Peter Pan Syndrome). Indulges self. Boastful. Likes luxuries and gambling. Social and outgoing. Doesn’t like responsibilities. Often fantasizes. Impatient. Fun to be around. Having lots of friends. Flirtatious. Doesn’t like rules. Sometimes hypocritical. Dislikes being confined – tight spaces or even tight clothes. Doesn’t like being doubted. Beautiful inside and out.

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well, this really works on me..it’s true for me =)

INGAT!!!

JANGAN MENGINTIP JAWABANNYA TERLEBIH DAHULU SEBELUM ANDA MENJAWAB PERTANYAANYA.

Selamat mencoba

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DALAI LAMA

Dijamin tidak ngerjain. Anda akan menemukan diri Anda sendiri:

Dalai Lama berkata, “Bacalah dan lihat apakah ini sesuai untukmu.”

Sangat menarik. Hanya empat pertanyaan dan jawabannya akan mengejutkan!

Jangan curang dengan mengintip terlebih dahulu jawabannya. Otak kita itu seperti parasut. Bekerja dengan baik jika dalam keadaan terbuka.

Sangat menyenangkan untuk dilakukan, tapi Anda harus mengikuti instruksinya secara perlahan-lahan.

Perhatian !!!

Jawablah pertanyaan berikut sesuai dengan pilihan hati Anda sendiri.

Hanya terdapat 4 pertanyaan dan jika Anda mengintip semua sebelum  Anda menyelesaikannya, Anda tidak akan mendapat jawaban yang jujur mengenai diri Anda.

Arahkan ke bawah secara perlahan, jawablah semua tes secara berurutan dan jujur. Jangan mengintip pertanyaan nomor berikutnya jika belum menjawab jawaban yang di atasnya. Gunakan pensil dan kertas untuk menulis jawaban Anda! Anda akan memerlukannya pada saat ingin mengetahui jawaban yang jujur tentang Anda.

Semua jawaban akan menceritakan banyak hal tentang Anda sendiri.

Jangan takut, ini hanya tes personality Dalai Lama … :))

PERSONALITY TEST:

Ingat tulis jawabannya dengan pensil dan kertas yang sudah Anda

sediakan.

Pertanyaan #1

Urutkan lima hewan di bawah ini yang menurut Anda bisa mewakili diri Anda

(semua harus dipilih namun diurut berdasarkan prioritas pilihan).

a. Sapi/Cow

b. Macan/Tiger

c. Kambing/Sheep

d. Kuda/Horse

e. Babi/Pig

Pertanyaan #2

Tuliskan kalimat yang menjelaskan tentang hal dibawah ini menurut Anda

(Contoh Hujan — Kalimat yang ada dibenak saya adalah: Menyegarkan dan penuh berkah)

1.Anjing/Dog

2.Kucing/Cat

3.Tikus/Rat

4.Kopi/Coffe

5.Laut/Sea

Pertanyaan #3

Pikirkan seseorang yang juga mengenal Anda dan memiliki arti penting buat Anda. Dimana Anda bisa menghubungkannya dengan warna di bawah ini.  Jika mendengar warna di bawah ini, siapa orang yang langsung teringat bagi Anda (Jangan mengulang jawabannya, jawaban pertama Anda adalah yang digunakan).

Masing-masing warna dijawab hanya dengan menyebut satu nama orang  atau teman dekat yang memiliki arti.

1. Kuning/Yellow

2. Orange

3. Merah/Red

4. Putih/White

5. Hijau/Green

JAWABAN

Pertanyaan # 1:

Hal ini akan menjawab prioritas hidup Anda, mana yang diutamakan:

Sapi/Cow berarti Karir

Macan/tiger berarti Harga Diri

Kambing/Sheep berarti Cinta

Kuda/Horse berarti Keluarga

Babi/Pig berarti Uang/Kekayaan

Pertanyaan #2:

Deskripsi Anda tentang Anjing/Dog merupakan gambaran DIRI Anda SENDIRI

Deskripsi Anda tentang Kucing/Cat merupakan gambaran Sifat Pasangan Anda

Deskripsi Anda tentang Tikus/Rat merupakan gambaran Sifat Musuh Anda

Deskripsi Anda tentang Kopi/Coffe merupakan jawaban Anda jika ditanya Makna Seks..

Deskripsi Anda tentang Laut/Sea merupakan gambaran kehidupan diri Anda sendiri

Pertanyaan #3:

Kuning/Yellow adalah seseorang yang tidak akan pernah Anda lupakan.

Orange adalah seseorang yang Anda anggap sebagai sahabat sejati Anda.

Merah/Red adalah seseorang yang sangat Anda cintai!

Putih/White adalah Seseorang yang hatinya merupakan kembaran hati Anda /Your Twin Soul

Hijau/Green adalah seseorang yang akan kamu ingat untuk selama-lamanya

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